That would be me. Ha, ha. I've been through some life changing events, some culminated into what I call my "earthquake". My earthquake started years ago with the unexpected death of my husband. Four months later, my Father was diagnosed with cancer #1. After surgery and radiation, he survived. Until cancer #2, which came 5 years after surgery from cancer #1. Cancer #2 was lung cancer, the cancer was in an inoperable and ultimately fatal. After 35 chemo treatments, his lung collapsed and Dad made the painful decision not to continue with life saving measures and was put in hospice. He passed in 2006. That's when I was told by others that I was now the sole caregiver for my Mother. That calling in life ended abruptly in 2017 after suffering a heat stroke. My life at that point, for the next few months, went from crazy to insane as I had to go back to work full time while caring for a family member and working with an attorney for the probate on Mo...